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Talking With Your Family

Learn about genes and cancer, signs of hereditary cancer, genetic counseling, types of genetic tests and what results mean for you and your family.

Related Force Information

Hereditary Cancer: How do I tell my children?
Winter 2008 Joining FORCEs newsletter article summarizing presentation at Joining FORCEs Conference on this topic.

National Family History Day: “My Family Health Portrait”
Fall 2005 FORCE newsletter article about the U.S. Surgeon General’s family history initiative.

Coping with Risk and Family Dynamics
Fall 2006 FORCE newsletter article summarizing Dr. Paul Jacobsen’s presentation at our 2006 conference on handling family dynamics when disclosing hereditary cancer risks to family

Can BRCA Testing Benefit Young Breast Cancer Survivors Who Have Little or No Family History?
Summer 2007 article about research showing that young women with breast cancer should receive genetic counseling, even if they do not have a strong family history of cancer

Printable worksheet for sharing genetic information with family members
FORCE developed this printable worksheet to assist people with sharing medical information with family members.

Sharing risk information with children
May 5, 2010: free, on-demand webinar by psychologist Karen Hurley, PhD focuses on feelings that parents commonly experience when dealing with the possibility of risk to their children and guidelines for communication.

Confronting Hereditary Breast and Ovarian Cancer
This FORCE-endorsed book was written by founder and Executive Director Sue Friedman; geneticist Rebecca Sutphen, MD; and health writer, Kathy Steligo. This book is a comprehensive resource on all topics related to hereditary cancer, genetic testing, and risk-management.

How Children Respond to a Parent's BRCA Test Results
Article from Spring 2012 Joining FORCEs Newsletter reporting research on what parents tell children about BRCA testing and how children react to this information.

Books

Am I Next in Line?
Written by Monique Achtman, a cancer pre-vivor and FORCE member. This book tells her family’s personal story and includes other families’ stories of hereditary cancer.

Apron Strings: Inheriting Courage, Wisdom and Breast Cancer
by Diane Tropea Greene
Apron Strings is an upbeat and optimistic look at learning to take control when your family is faced with hereditary cancer.

Motherless Daughters

My Mother's Breast:Daughters Face their Mothers Cancer

Taking Care of Your Girls
Marica Weiss. This how-to-guide is written for adolescent girls. It provides balanced information, and answers the questions about breast health and development that most adolescent girls are afraid to ask..

Other Websites

Cyndi's List of Geneaology Sites on the Internet
A useful compilation of sites to help you chronicle your family history.

Jewish Gen
A free, easy-to-use genealogy website features thousands of databases, research tools, and other resources to help those with Jewish ancestry research and find family members.

Geneaology Relationship Chart
Is she a "first cousin once removed" or "a fourth great-grand niece"? This handy resource helps you determine what to call the relationship between family members.

Surgeon General's Family Health History Initiative
The U.S. Surgeon General has designated Thanksgiving as Family History Day. They encourage families to share their family medical history. This site includes a downloadable Family History Tool that allows you to track the incidence of certain diseases in your family.

Ancestry.com 1940 census records
Look up basic data from the 1940 US census.

Ancestry.com obituary search

Ancestry.com vital records link